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To add to that on the new list if someone gets out right
beligerant we will just set them to moderated posts and I
will make sure they know how to play nice before they are
allowed to send messages without my or Sam's approval
again.
Vern
On Thu, 27 Sep 2007 14:25:04 -0500
"Lee Huddleston" <> wrote:
> Actually, it was not well written and thoughtful. From
>time-to-time on this
> and any other list we are likely to write or express
>something poorly. Or,
> we might take a position that we later realize is
>incorrect. If that
> happens, as it is certain to do, if the person who
>disagress or is offended
> acts like an attack dog, complete with pejorative names,
>it tears down the
> sense of community that we have built over time. It
>also makes it next to
> impossible for the "offending" person to make amends.
> If, instead, you
> start with the assumption that the offending person is
>your friend and
> fellow sailor and would not intentially do anything to
>make you upset or
> mad, you will succeed in nurturing the sense of
>community and give the
> offender the benefit of knowing what bothers you. In
>other words, try just
> informing the offender that using an expression or
>advocating some action
> disturbs you and why.
>
> Of course, if the SOB keeps on irratating you after
>he/she knows that it
> makes you mad, you are welcome to blast him/her. :-)
>
> Lee Huddleston
> s/v Truelove
> -----Original Message-----
> From:
> [mailto:]On
>Behalf Of
>
> Sent: Thursday, September 27, 2007 12:59 PM
> To:
> Cc:
> Subject: Re: lv-ab: Apologies for my recent outburst
>
>
> I thought it was well written and thoughtful, not an
>outburst.
>
> Bill
> 38' sportsfisher
> Newport beach CA
>
>
> In a message dated 9/27/07 10:46:04 AM,
> writes:
>
>
>
> I apologize to the members for my recent outburst
>regarding cursing on
> the list. I should have sent it privately.
>
> Rob Zanussi
>
>
>
> Hey, moron, do you mind not taking the Lord's name in
>vain! There are
> children that read this list, mine included and while I
>am not overly
> religious there is no need to use this sort of language.
>By your use of it
> here, it implies that it is ok to use it. Perhaps you
>don't mind your
> children using it, but I am trying to raise mine
>properly.
>
> BTW, cursing is not a replacement for intelligent
>conversation. Keep that
> in mind the next time you feel like letting loose.
>
> Don't bother to reply to me off list, your email is
>blocked
>
> Rob Zanussi
>
> > Jesus Christ!!!!
> >
> > If steven does not want the list, take it over, good
>God!
> >
> > Sterling
> >
>
>
>
>
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