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RE: lv-ab: Lets be "offensive"

From: jmwyatt (no email)
Date: Fri Mar 02 2001 - 21:55:19 EST

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    I think we can all agree to disagree. The issue here is how do we engage in
    disagreement? Should it be a civil, productive and articulate dialogue or
    shall we just be clumsy, blunt and vulgar. I, for one, am exceedingly weary
    of those that mistake rudeness for directness and boldness for
    thoughtfulness. And I don't intend to get accustomed to it. I believe that
    it is fair and reasonable that we have higher expectations of how people
    comport themselves on this list.

    JMW

    -----Original Message-----
    From:
    [mailto:]On Behalf Of Jay Prince
    Sent: Friday, March 02, 2001 3:51 PM
    To:
    Subject: lv-ab: Lets be "offensive"

    >I didn't happen to see the remarks Deborah referred to but I agree
    >with her that people who cannot act like civil adults

    I have not seen anyone act like uncivil children. Including both
    sides of the recent cops debate.

    Deborah's beef is that she disagrees with the statements posted, and
    so she chooses to attack them by claiming they should be gagged.

    It is clear from her statements that her issue is with seeing
    opinions she disagrees with. note: "and they used this word about
    someone from our USCG". The implication being that the USCG is above
    reproach. A difference of opinion.

    Personally, some of the, shall we say, strong ways that people put
    things on this list is something I've had to get used to. But I
    realize that the cause of this is a combination of widely differing
    views, with a greater than typical tendency to express those views
    bluntly.

    While my feathers have been ruffled on occasion, I welcome it.

    Jay
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