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lv-ab: What a list...flames and advice in one!

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Date: Fri Mar 02 2001 - 13:01:18 EST

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    I agree 100% with Deborah, so I repeat her message. And I suggest
    "Bandership" be blocked from the list. There's no doubt in my mind he
    manages to exacerbate every situation he's ever been in, and often the email
    he answers. Everyone knows power can corrupt, but come on! We've all heard
    stories of cops and Coasties abusing their authority. So do doctors,
    lawyers, shoe salesmen, presidents and game wardens, you name it. It's a
    fact of life. Your boat is considered a BOAT, not your home, so the same
    rules do not apply right now. The things you complain about are based on old
    laws written before cruisers/liveaboards were considered and land-dwellers
    with no idea of what they're doing. Not what we would like, but we are
    working to change that, and some changes have been made. If you don't like
    it, do what some of my cruising friends have done and move to the Bahamas or
    South America. Or work to change the laws here. But don't antagonize every
    authority figure you meet. Your tale reads like a bad movie. No one could
    possibly get into it with the authorities as much as you describe without
    getting in their faces first. Even I know better than to start bitching at
    the cop who just pulled me over. Telling a Coastie his white light is out is
    like stopping a cop to tell him his taillight is out. You're not gonna make
    any friends that way. This group in general puts their lives on the line for
    guys like you and me everyday. My question is, how many hours/dollars have
    you spent trying to get the laws changed in our favor? Mike has obviously
    spent some time doing just that, as have I.
    Believe it or not, I whole-heartedly agree with what I perceive is your main
    beef, that our boats are not considered our homes. But right now they are
    not. I'm doing everything I can to change the laws that regulate that.
    However, your reply to Mike is nothing but more innuendo, mildly concealed
    threats, insults, and nit-picking of the first degree. And I thought
    live-aboards were a laid-back easy-going group!

    Butch

    >Dear List Owner:
    I can't believe I have to write this email.
    I'm on several mailing lists.
    This is the first list I've ever seen where I've seen truly offensive
    remarks. And I've been on this list less than 2 weeks. Is it always like
    this? What happened to common courtesy for others?

    Last week someone actually used the word "asshole". And to top it off, they
    used it in reference to members of our USCG. Today, someone used the term
    "commie, pinko fag".

    Does this list tolerate profanity on the list and disparaging remarks towards
    members of our police, USCG and homosexuals? Who/What will be next?
    Remember, the "purpose of this list is to be a forum for communication among
    people living aboard and those who are thinking about it or are interested".
     When I joined the list, I received an email that stated "NB: Persons sending
    ... abusive expressions will be removed from the list and blocked. ...This
    list is meant to provide information needed by people living in boats, not to
    be a vehicle for political and ideological debates or invective." Why are
    "abusive expressions" tolerated?

    I was very excited about the prospects of being a part of this list, but
    these people are using poor judgment. When I read comments like that, it
    makes me wonder if this list isn't made up of paranoid, ignorant, bigoted and
    just plain mean people.

    Please don't suggest that I should leave the list if I don't like it. Those
    of us who are concerned and offended shouldn't have to leave. I'm writing
    this to try and change the list for the better.
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